I'm rapidly about to become a member of the sandwich generation, and wondered if people out there have any comments/experience w/ assisted living centers.

QUESTION:

I'm rapidly about to become a member of the sandwich generation, and wondered if people out there have any comments/experience w/ assisted living centers. In particular, Brookhaven in Lexington, or similar places in Wayland/Sudbury. My folks need a place that allows dogs, but otherwise aren't terribly particular Thanks -- and leads to web pages with ratings or something would be great too.

ANSWER:

After dealing with assisting living and nursing homes several times for elderly relations in the last 10 years a few comments. I know that this is not the exact area - but I will toss this out anyway. I assume that you have obtained the booklet that list all levels of care centers in the state.
We were happy with the Leland Home in Waltham. A smaller facility in good clean shape. It was on lower priced size when I looked (at quite a few) and they had rooms for 2 people.
Another good place was the Cadbury Commons in Cambridge.
I don't know if either took dogs though.
Where ever you choose - read the contracts very carefully. Some of their contracts can make you pay through end of month should the resident vacate say on the second of the month. And they can get you for a month rent AFTER your loved one is out of there. About 2 years ago I emailed the Elder Affairs Committee at the State House about this extra month charging and none of them responded.
If possible check out potential places at odd hours unannounced to really see what is going on.
Somewhere on the State House website there is a "report card" of how nursing homes rate. I don't know if assisted living facilities have been added.
Many people fail to realize that assisted living facilities are in excess of 2k a month and no the "system" doesn't subsidize one for assisted living. The system only subsidizes full blown nursing homes which are in excess of 6k a month in this state.


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